The eternal question about life is, do we achieve that?
Optimism and Pessimism colours our perspective
There's no need to hope if you're on the way there. If you want something you just go and get it.
What are things that I want but I'm not getting?
Compare myself to my 100% - What am I not getting?
Survival
Relationships
Results
Being objective isnt about how I feel - it's devoid of that feeling - Do A get result A. Simply put.
I need to stop feeling sorry and attaching so much emotion to all the shit i am doing.
Individual Subjective
Individual Objective
Collective Subjective - culture
Collective Objective - The Establishment (POWER IS HERE)
Successful selling and management skills get you wins
-Must do my work
-Must be responsible and work as hard as i can
-Be honest with myself
-Cut down distractions, addictions cover things up
-Trust the method
-Do more, and get beyond - don't touch the excuses - just fucking do it
-Fail? you fail. nothing to it. just push harder.
There are formulas to everything - and all u need to do is do
Acts of courage - don't worry and don't suppress. Just dont fucking care.
Have a peak experience everyday
Defence Mechanisms
Passiveignore
avoid
shock
freeze
play dead
denial
regression
stonewall
shutdown
Mixed
Passive-Aggressive
Renewal - Half assed keep restarting
Schizoid Fantasy
Aggressive
rationalizing - in head - "everything is ok"
justifying - out of head
lying
suspicion - think & doubt myself/person
skepticism - want proof
judging - judge others
projection - attack someone else using another image
sadistic attack
masochistic attack
hypochondriasis
gathering agreement
wilfullness - purposely show force
rebellion - overthrow
covert hostility
sarcasm
What are my default choices + sequences?
1. Judging
2. Ignore
3. Projection
4. Regression
5. Renewal
6. Lying to myself and to others
7. Shut down
8. Rationalization
-These defence mechanisms arent bad on their own. just that under different conditions, can I control them? and if I'm out of my comfort zone this stuff kicks up. It's NOT ok-
Get used to breaking comfort zone - must self impose or die
People find a way to worm their way into their Comfort Zone if they havent expanded it yet. So pay attention to when you need to stop and switch the defence mech off.
Have I stopped questioning reality? YES.
Don't stop man. The things I think are normal aren't normal and are programmed. So the big question is, who am I?
We are all schizophrenic
-we create different parts of our ego
-we have different voices in our head - the self smasher, the hopeless romantic, the raging orge, the hasty rebel, the focused leader, the immovable object, the unstoppable force, the catatonic fuck, the indulgent baby
-We dont know who we are because we are actually many people - and this is also why we do not have discipline
-Different personalities - talk about the Mansion analogy
-Chaos vs Order - truth is order takes a fuck load of effort
-All the days I took it easy, will come back and haunt and fuck me
-Khalil Gibran's The Great Sea
-I've shrunk. because i've stopped pushing against the comfort zone, expanding the comfort zone and questioning what reality truly is. With a verified test.
I have forgotten!
So what do I wanna create?
- my ideal health and body
- the experiences I still want to find
- the skills and learning i want to experience
- the organization i've founded
My company's growth is limited to my own personal growth as the founder.
-Get rid of bad habits
-Get rid of physical barriers
-AOC daily
-Consistent small actions change reality
What's my perfect day?
I wake up early to sit down and chill, and meditate, and plan what to do for the day. (I actually think my preferences and strengths and "vision" will change as I become a greater version of myself. So in this case, it's me learning shit fucking fast and well.)
Learnt some shit, expanded my consciousness through an AOC or three, run my own hedge fund? or my own tech company...
Eat some nice ass well developed food created by my own company.
Learning Mental, Physical, Intuitive, Musical skills always. Probably building a legacy sometime too.
Master my mind, to master myself, to master my reality. Be, Do, Have.
There are maps provided for the world - use a good one. and make a smart move.
Smart objectively - instead of how i "feel"
Speed has nothing to do with time. Time is something we dont yet truly understand.
To grasp principles you need to let go of your Examples - need to get a statistically significant sample size to see whether it works or no
There's a price to pay for speed - likewise a price to pay for everything else
The world does not function as a hierarchy of needs. It functions as a hierarchy of functions.
- see things for what they are, and what you do must work in this world. If it doesnt work? then you know something is wrong. Ever measured what works and what doesnt?
-Believe nothing, verify everything
-environments are compensations for people too!
-your happiness is your own, nobody can make you happy
"How do you really want to be a contribution to this world?" - only transcendence as a possibility. no end point. In opening up my own possibilities, I let others see what they can do too...
"What possibility do you offer?"
"What are you willing to do to fulfil your purpose?"
dont give up until the end. do everything i can think of. what did i notice?
X - Directly affect milestones
Y - Supporting Actions that fuel X
Z - Actions that kill me
Objectivity comes with the price of our will.
Training of will - how much control do I have in my body?
Discipline - everything is a place to be, a way to set-up
For all our goals, we need certainty.
Which means whatever I put down on paper/pixel, I make it come true no matter what.
Discipline is the ability to do whatever is necessary to make things happen
It happens every single moment in your life.
If you don't do your work, your energy will just drop. You need to get into a cycle, which is why the timetable is now crucial
Juggling time - precise, concise and tangible goals - with contingency plans, structured where you know your priorities and gain momentum.
Maintaining focus - clear distractions + clear clutter
Attitudes to hit 100%
1. The Desire
How alluring is my dream? Precise, Sharp, Concentrated. How much will I want?
2. The Will
How long can I maintain it?
Replay the end point in my mind
What opportunities are there after the dream?
3. The ability to overcome all barriers no matter what
External - environmental/exogenous
Internal - Negative conversations, dogs, lunatics, tramps, householders
Fighting my machines is linked to how much ENERGY I invest into making this work. The more energy I dedicate to a certain machine, the more power I give to the machine.
Who you are determined what you do, and what you get as results.
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Branding is everything - basically your life philosophy and how you live. how you dress. who you hang with. what you say. who you ARE.
Needs to be clarified
Be Constant
And be Consistent across all media
Suitable? - specialization and reliability - clear?
Visible? - Attention and awareness - constant?
Memorable? - Potential and affinity? - consistent?
Who Are You? We are not our roles
Why do we do what we do? - What is a compelling reason for others to buy the product, service or company? Why should they care?
Brand Story - real, innovative, informative and inspiring
How do we do it? - USP
What do we do exactly? - 60 Second Elevator Pitch
Who we are, what we do best and for whom do we do it?
I am a ____ (what you want people to perceive you as)who ___ (what you do best)
for ____ (your target audience)
so they can ____ (resultant impact made)
-Fill a void (emotional needs)
How can you make the world a better place?
-Create something new
-Do less. Focus on a single service and do it well.
-Collaborate with specialist partners. Become a resource, MOU and co-refer
-Evolve your business model as you and your life evolve
Brand manifesto -
Brand vision, principles and values I live by, practices that forward, grow and inspire me. Attitudes I adopt. things we teach or impart. The brand essence and promise
"Defying Gravity"
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